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How to Turn Women On

How to Turn Women On

 

 

Sexual escalation is a huge part of seduction and funnily enough it was the one part I struggled with the most when interacting with women. A limiting belief i had ingrained in my mind was that “Women don’t like sex as much as men”. Only after sexually escalating did I discovered this belief was far from the truth. As the matter of fact its quite the opposite, “most women enjoy sex more than men do!”

 

When I started to sexually escalate in conversations and physically touching women, my success started to rise and I started getting laid more. A BIG lesson I learnt was Women love talking about sex and have a very imaginative mind. So Imaginative that when you talk about sex or what you enjoy doing in the bedroom, she will more than likely imagine you doing those things to her. This turns the conversation into a more sexual undertone and is what seduction is all about.

 

A combination of talking about sex and physically escalating can do wonders when it comes to interacting with girls.

 

Social Stigma Comforting Her

 

It is no secret women have a social stigma when it comes to sex and being sexually open. The reason for this is the social conditioning society has put on women. A woman faces social ridicule for sleeping with too many male partners and can be labelled a slut. Whats interesting about this is that the term “slut” was actually invented by women.

 

Have you ever heard of women complaining about guys getting laid is something looked up to but women getting laid is frowned upon, that is because of social conditioning.

 

Women are sexual creatures just like men however society puts pressure on women to suppress that sexual side out of fear of being judged. In order to unleash that sexual side of her you have to make her comfortable enough with you. If you are comfortable talking about sex she will be comfortable with you about those things so long as she doesnt feel as though she will be judged by you then she will open up to you.

 

At the end of the day, sex is a natural and healthy desire to have and it is nothing to be ashamed of. The fact that both men and women suppress that side of themselves is actually saddening and is also the reason why people struggle so much when it comes to dating.

 

Letting a girl know that you won’t judge her or think any less of her for opening up to you will allow her to express herself more freely about the topic.

 

“I actually respect women more when they are open about enjoying sex, it shows that they are confident enough with themselves to not care about what others think”

 

Ive said this to women a lot, It demonstrates that I dont care that she enjoys sex and that I wont judge her because of it. This allows women to feel comfortable talking to me about it.

 

How to Sexually Escalate With Women

 

Verbal Escalation

 

Verbal Escalation relies on social calibration and your ability to transition conversations into a sexual direction; this could be anything from flirty statements, comments or even witty sexual remarks.

 

It’s important that you transition the conversation in a calibrated way, when  verbally escalating.

Uncalibrated

Girl: I am a nurse

Guy: Wow nurses are hot, I’ve never slept with a nurse

Calibrated

Girl: I am a school teacher

Guy: I can picture you in a sexy teachers outfit, I bet your students give you a hell of a lot of apples

 

 

Physical Escalation

 

If you’re not a touchy person, getting into the habit of touching people is hard, I was never a touchy person and the thought of touching a girls arm when talking to her or putting my hand on a girls back or waist made me a little un easy.

 

I personally I was worried of coming off creepy and chances are that my first couple of times I went about touching women (I probably did creep out girls at first). However the more comfortable you become at touching the more normal it becomes. I’ve only ever had one girl say to me “don’t touch me” and I’ve spoken to thousands of women.

 

Calibration

 

I mention calibration a lot above, calibration is mainly about getting used to doing things comfortably. It mainly relies on experience. The more you verbally escalate or physically escalate, the more comfortable you will become at it.

 

I creeped out a lot of women at the beginning however It was a good price to pay in the long run, Now I dont have fears of touching women nor talking about sex and I am now calibrated when it comes to Verbal and Physical escalation.

 

Calibration comes with experience and develops naturally, the only conscious way to work on calibration on a specific area is to actively do it more and more.

 

Fear of Sexually Escalating

 

 

Just like anything else in life that you are not comfortable doing, there will always be a fear that you will have to overcome. Overcoming the fear of sexualising an interaction with a girl can be tricky but after you become comfortable doing it, you will allow yourself to enjoy more success with women.

 

The first time will always be the hardest.

 

 

Tips To Start Sexually Escalating

 

 

1. Using words like Mischeif, Fun, Cheeky, Sexy and trouble are good words to use when sexually escalating

 

“You look like your out for trouble tonight” or “You’ve got a cheeky look about you, you look like you’d be a bad influence on me”

 

2. Touching a girl on her arm is a great way to start physically escalating (Never touch the shoulder)

 

3. Verbally Escalating is much easier to do if you do it playfully

“I like your dress, they go well with your boobs”

 

4. Grabbing a girls hands to check out her ring is a great excuse to break the touch barrier and its not as lame as palm reading.

 

5. If a girl touches you, be sure to physically escalate

 

Cheers

 

Cristian 

 

How To Sexually Escalate

How To Lead Her Into The Bedroom

As the title suggests this article is about how to lead women into the bedroom, that’s right lead is the keyword here. I’m not talking about being an alpha male or a leader of men here, nor am I talking about being in a leading position at your local hooters joint (although I congratulate you if you are) but more so Leading women in the general direction that you want to take things with her.

 

 A common thought that is regularly overlooked by men is that Women Fear Rejection Also and why shouldn’t they? Who likes to be rejected?

 

Fortunately for women it is a man’s job to make the first move and take the lead not the woman’s; she does not want the hassle nor the need to worry about leading and the responsibility of the choices she makes. Therefore Its unfortunate but men must carry this hassle and deal with the responsibility as well as rejection.

 

Why Is Leading So Important

 

It is not only essential but failure to lead women can be Detrimental to your overall game! The ability to Lead resonates throughout the entire process from approaching to dating to even Sex.

 

Most women expect the man to take the lead and failing to do so will end in her losing interest in you quite quickly or even missing out on opportunities with a lot of women.

 

At any one time, you could have 5 women around you that are attracted and possibly interested in you, however like I’ve mentioned before, most women don’t want the hassle nor the worry of taking the lead. Which is why its rare for women to proactively walk up to you and start a conversation.

 

By approaching, you are essentially taking the first step and thus taking the lead with her.

 

Making Her Lead

 

A Common mistake guys make is handing over the hassle and responsibility of lead to her. Common occurrences of this could be “Picking a movie to watch” or “making her decide what day she is free to meet up” or even asking her “Do you want to come home with me tonight?”

 

Chances are she will either not like you doing this, refuse to make the choice or end up saying No as she does not want to be responsible for her actions. Keeping that in mind asking her “do you want to come home with me?” may result in a No when she may have really wanted to.

 

How Women Make a Choice

 

So you are probably thinking, “Hold on Bigz, How does a woman make a choice if your leading her?” …my answer is “How can you lead without a follower?” women make their choice through their compliance to your lead and much like your leading, their compliance resonates through the entire process as well .

 

When You Approach

 

She decides whether she will talk to you

 

Number Closing

 

She decides whether to give her number to you

 

Follow Up

 

She decides to respond/answer

 

Meeting Up

 

She decides if she willing to meet you again

 

Leading goes on, all the way to your bedroom.

 

Failure To Lead Women

 

Much like women, Men don’t like getting rejected, therefore a majority rather play it safe and not lead women into the direction they want. Women do not find it attractive when a man cannot take the lead and take the risk of rejection.

 

This can cause a lot of complications with mens relationships with the women, They either send out mixed signals to women, women dont respond well to them and lose interest or even worse you end up finding out that her intentions don’t match yours later down the line.

 

A Good way to avoid all the above is to OWN your intentions, OWN your direction and lead women towards that path, she can only comply with whatever direction you take her, you never know she might be up for that one night stand, if you suggest instead of ask.

 

 

Cheers,

Cristian

 

 

Avoid The Friend zone

Insights On Avoiding The Friendzone

 

The Friend Zone

 

One of the most horrible things a woman you are attracted to can say to you is “let’s just be friends” its phrase heard all too frequently by good decent guys. The words can bring a man down harder than a sack of potatoes.

 

If you’re asking yourself questions like “why does she care about our friendship so much that she’s not willing to take a chance?” or “why does she only see me as friend” then chances are you failed at communicating to her what your intentions were at the beginning, this post will offer you some insight and possibly answers those questions.

 

Making Your Intentions Clear

 

This is probably one of the biggest lessons I’ve learnt the hard way. If you meet a girl through friends or even in a nightclub, make your intentions clear at the beginning. If you are treating her like a friend and not a woman you would like to sleep with, well guess what?  You are going to be a friend and not someone she could see herself sleeping with. Making your intentions clear is one of the biggest things when it comes to avoiding the friend zone.

 

Women like a man who is clear about what he wants; they respect it and its admirable thing. By not trying to hide your intentions, not only will you gain her respect but possibly her attraction.

 

By trying to get close to her and being friends with her, you are setting yourself up for this friend zone fate, now in my experience this is what I used to do, I wouldn’t make my intentions clear from the beginning and I would just be friends with her and it never worked, not to mention sometimes a woman can tell when you like them anyways.

 

If you don’t make your intentions clear

 

So what happens when you don’t make your intentions clear in the beginning with a girl you are interested in? Essentially you are making things harder for yourself and for her. Let’s say you get to know each other, you hang out a lot, maybe even build a huge connection and get along greatly There are 3 things happen that work against you.

 

1)      The longer you keep your intentions hidden from her, the harder it becomes to make them clear because you are emotionally invested and care much more about the outcome.

 

2)      The more you guys hang out together in a friendly way, the harder it is for her to see you as someone she could sleep with because she is emotionally invested and cares much more.

 

3)      If you guys have common friends then she also has to deal with the social pressure of sleeping with you, Fear of people in your group finding out and making a big deal of it or fear of things going sour after sleeping with each other.

 

The Less Time the Less Impact

 

The Less time you take in showing your intentions the more likely you are to have success with her, if you’re making your intentions clear from the beginning, then essentially the 3 above points are no longer valid. A rejection from a girl who you barely know is a lot easier to deal with than a girl you have connected with, shared things with and even grown to care about.

 

Vice versa, the impact is less on her also, she won’t care as much about friendship because there is none to begin with, neither of you are emotionally invested because you barely know each other, and therefore there is nothing to go sour. It will be more sociable acceptable in your group and they would care much less if you two met and had sex as opposed to you two being friends for months and then having sex. If she rejects you straight up then you could always try being friends =)

 

 

Putting her up on a pedestal = Not Attractive

 

If you are being overly nice with a girl you like, not only does it come off as not being genuine but also a bit cheesy. If you are chasing her, putting her up on a pedestal  by being overly nice, paying for her and letting her walk all over you, then you are communicating that you are not a confident man and that you value her more than yourself, which is not attractive.

 

Some women like to take advantage of this situation so don’t let it happen to you.

 

Women are attracted to a man who can challenge them, who is not constantly chasing her or doing everything for her. Who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to go for it, who is independent and most of all who is a challenge.

 

Learning to Accept It

 

If you have experienced the friend zone, know that once you’re in there it’s near impossible to get out. It is a difficult thing to accept at times but if you keep perusing it you will only make matters worse. She has made her mind up about you and what she wants and there is nothing you will be able to do to change that in the near future. If she is not willing to see the value you have to offer her, then she’s the one missing out.

 

There are two things you can do at this point, one is stop being friends, learn from your mistakes and leave her in the past or if you cherish your friendship with her then just accept that you two will always just be friends.

 

Either way you need to move on and find other women, there is no shortage of cool attractive women out there.

 

Having Chick Friends

 

If you are going out and talking to women and find yourself making friends with girls don’t see it as a lack of your ability to attract women, sometimes you might just not fit the girl’s type of guy. Everyone has a type. That being said doesn’t try to become her type a man who compromises himself for a woman is not attractive.

 

What’s wrong with having chick friends anyways? Women are useful to have around you. You can ask them questions and even pick their brains about different things, what better way than to learn from the source. Having chick friends also improves your understanding of how women work, how to communicate better with them and understanding how there line of thinking.

 

Not to mention that she will have friends that you can meet who may be potential partners,  a man who has a lot of women in his social circle is much more attractive than one who doesn’t.

 

Hope you enjoyed this post, Bookmark this page, Ill be updating my blog on the regular

 

Cheers,

Cristian